Times when we know the answer but we don't want to reckon it.
We ask others for advice or a suggestion hoping that they would say what we want to hear.
When others speak the reality we are like "exactly!,How did you know!, I think you are right, You are a genius! " and then.. we resume to the mush mode and end up doing what we long to do.
Just like " I am all Ears but I do what cheers "
My sister asks me the other night, Hey Ray, Which one do you think would sustain?
A relationship which has been stable for quite sometime say one year or
the one which has been on and off for 3-4 years ??
It was 1:15 am. I just can't defy answering if any sentence ends with a question mark. Reflex!!
So, I stopped faking the snores and started to think about it.
Well, Talking about the on and off one... The partners have apparently known each other for a long time! They have both loved and hated each other.
So every-time they go 'off' they are at the peak of the hatred and the time when they are ON... it signifies something. Something they don't realize.
They have accepted the Bad in them mutually. The thing which was the reason for the pseudo break up is now acceptable to both. They still want to be together.
In addition to that, they also know what to do in a similar bitter situation. They already have explored their options !! They are prepared and cautious!
Hence, the so called Cupid is there but now it wears an underwear of uncertainty as opposed to the stark one!
Uncertainty which gives them the power to unlock anytime they want. No smothering!
This will be an ongoing process which works for them! They are happy together.
The instability doesn't denote a weak relationship. In fact, it is their strength now.
They will fight-break up just to kiss and makeup.
They will come back for each other no matter what.
When they are ON - together together
When they are Off - Friends Forever
That is it. I guess I pretty much nailed the query didn't I?
I realized I was talking to myself.
Anyway... Sweet dreams!