My Love,
Most of
us underestimate the power of distance. As you distance from an event or
relationship, it's intensity diminishes and then completely disappears. If you
virtually distance yourself from this planet, the insignificance of everything
becomes overwhelming. And if you distance yourself from the person you love,
the spikes and troughs of emotions are replaced by a slow, steady, simmering
that strengthens the desire and importance of the one you love.
I did not fall in love with you immediately. I
think it was more like intrigue-at-first-sight. Then for a long period I was in
adoration and admiration. And then suddenly one morning, I was hopelessly in
love. I was suddenly hungry to know you, understand you, go to the layers of
events and relationships to understand what has made you the person you are. As
my love for you deepened, the hurt began. Some part was jealousy but mostly it
was because your feelings then had not become as intense as mine. There was a
time I nearly gave up. But I am so happy I didn't.
You are more amazing than you realize. You
have qualities that draws those around you, both men and women, even if they
are shy acknowledging it. People want to be your friend and they are proud to
have you by their side. You have a sharp mind and you understand people very
quickly. At the same time you are empathetic and helpful. And that, my
sweetheart, makes you a good human being. Your physical perfection and flawless
beauty can make men fall on their knees. You have a smile that can melt a
thousand hearts. You have a playfulness during your happy and expressive times
that is so magical and mesmerizing. You have a mature sense of humour like a
smooth dark chocolate. You are a great daughter and a delightful sister. You
are a fun friend to be with who knows how to let her hair down. You have a
refreshing creativity that does not come from reading a lot but is a natural
gift. You are so special and my list is not even half done!
In fact, I believe you underestimate yourself.
Can't blame you for being a 25 year old with all shades of moods from bright to
dark. That is OK. But I believe that you need to be choosy and not give
yourself away easily. You are a perfect friend and a great lover but there is
much more to you than that. As you make sure that you take sober relationship
steps. You need to be patient. The universe has your good in its mind, just
like so many of us who love you.
I don't want to sound melodramatic but I need
to share this with you. It came to my mind one day that you will be one of the
most important person that I will like to see during my last moments. I can
nearly visualize you walking in all lovely and womanly with your son holding
your hand, and you just sit and smile at me from a distance, and I smile back.
No words are required as we both know that we have been good for each other and
have enriched each other's life in ways that no one will ever know. I hope and
pray that that warmth will last forever. Did I just say forever! Yes I did
because I think it is possible.
The discovery of you as a lover does not end
by knowing about your past. That is just the beginning. The real passion is in
experiencing you everyday, every moment as you grow and bloom into a happier,
more confident and a more equanimous person. I hope you will let me hold your
hand in this journey as I too am evolving in ways which are fulfilling to me.
We are on our way to be perfect soulmates as
all the ingredients are there. And once that happens in spite of the given
limitations, it is immaterial whether we are just a wish away or a phone call
away or an ocean away. We will always be there for each other.
I love you
Yours Always
Imhsar
